Fun with sex toys

[coolasfcuk]

Originally Posted by spyretto

Very well put...After all, I have many common interests with many people who proclaim themselves as lesbians here - cool even likes football - but I can't pretend that lesbianism is one of my strong points. Then it all depends on the way things are presented: you can have the most gay, feminine or masculine topic but it can be presented in such a way that it wouldn't be exclusive and people who are not of the same orientation would be intruiged to contribute.

Right! Brillinat .... to finish this off, point is taken, I agree with the last part of this statement, so we should all strive for that....

[KillaQueen]

Originally Posted by coolasfcuk

I know, I was gonna say that before, but I forgot ... I see them visiting all the time, but you know what Killa, I think we 'scared' them away with our L Word obsession as well

Nah, i doubt it.. I thought they liked the L word as well.. yeah, maybe they're just busy.

OH I KNOW! since we lack new interesting topics, let's start a poll with the title "What's happened to Olga and Nath?"

[haku]

Originally Posted by coolasfcuk

What makes you think that lesbians hate str8 males?

Oh i never meant "hate", that's too strong, i just meant that their abscence would go unnoticed. You know, like when Tim disappeared at the beginning of season 2 of the L Word, the lesbian characters were not like "Hey, where did Tim go?", no, they didn't even notice he was gone.

Originally Posted by coolasfcuk

I am guessing you will stay haku, as the honorary male lesbian? ... or if you disappear as a str8 male, you will be missed, but I personaly prefer you to be our 'male lesbian'! ever since Lisa, I adore those

Haha, yeah, i wasn't talking about me as i certainly do not qualify as a straight male, otherwise we would need another word for the real straight males out there.


Anyway, to be back on topic...

Originally Posted by KillaQueen

Yeah, i heard that anal sex can be great for men as their G-point appears to be easily reachable by the anal way

Originally Posted by QueenBee

we had a discussion in my class about it with our teacher, and apparently guys can enjoy anal sex while girls can't, anatomically

Absolutely, anal stimulation can be extremely enjoyable for men, gay or straight. Contrary to what straight guys generally say, many of them actually enjoy being analy fingered as it stimulates the G point and greatly increases the intensity of orgasms.
Now the problem is that by "anal sex", people often think of "penis in anus", which is the extreme way of doing it and certainly not the way to go to give it a try, a finger or a very small dildo are enough to obtain a satisfiying stimulation, there's no need for a penis (and i'm not saying that because i'm a male lesbian, lol).
And even women can enjoy that kind of light anal stimulation, the anus is a very sensitive area and it's possible for a woman to experience anal orgasms, but again, it has to be done with a finger, a tongue, or a small dildo and not with a penis (or a big dildo) which is way too big and brutal.

Of course there are some women who actually enjoy rather brutal anal penetration, but those are generally into BDSM.

[madeldoe]

Originally Posted by coolasfcuk

*raises eyebraw* .. and you? You just come, make a smarty comment and laugh..... now SHARE! :gig: LoL

wells i have my own collection..urr i should say my gf and i do. we have purple ones in different sizes, because i much prefer length to width and the majority of the the ones out there are all about width. then we have the vibrator that has a casing thats ribbed like a real penis. then just the regular strapon with the cute little compartment that holds a little vibrator.
im generally not embarassed when i go into a shop..but its really gross when you go into the ones that have the viewing booths upstairs *shudders* grooody! and you can hear the moans and what not in the background eww blech!

if ur a lesbian why would u want a plastic dick inside u that makes no sense lol then turn bisexual and find a real man... its like a girl with a strap on :s thats ugly and kinda selfish..

doesnt have anything to do with your sexuality. its about pleasure. but i do respect couples who totally cant stand dildoes and what nots in the bedroom, because i used to have that mentality too. but maaaaaayn there is are some things dildoes can do that tounges and fingers cant. and vice versa.. sooo why not double your pleasure?!

[ypsidan04]

There is officially no place this forum won't go.


*Exits thread just as quickly as he entered*

[spyretto]

Originally Posted by haku

Oh i never meant "hate", that's too strong, i just meant that their abscence would go unnoticed. You know, like when Tim disappeared at the beginning of season 2 of the L Word, the lesbian characters were not like "Hey, where did Tim go?", no, they didn't even notice he was gone.

haku you have not the faintest idea how mutual the feelings are. What makes you think that your absence wouldn't go unnoticed too? Gimme one good reason.

[haku]

Originally Posted by spyretto

What makes you think that your absence wouldn't go unnoticed too? Gimme one good reason.

Oh there's no good reason, lol, my absence would go unnoticed too. I wasn't really there from january to march and that went fairly unnoticed.
This is a girls' place.

[spyretto]

Originally Posted by haku

Oh there's no good reason, lol, my absence would go unnoticed too. I wasn't really there from january to march and that went fairly unnoticed.
This is a girls' place.

Well, according to the "sexual demographics of the forum" that can be very useful and thanks very much for putting that up, 40% of those who voted are males. So, yeah it's a girl's forum but not exclusively a girls' forum. A closer approximation would be if we counted the sex of all posters from the beginning of the forum till now.
It's interesting that the biggest categories in the current demographics are equally the heterosexual males and bisexual females, while the homosexual females are no better than in 3rd position . The numbers can't lie.
If we also make the absurd assumption according to which some posters from a specific orientation might be missing somebody from the same orientation, the percentage of people who can potentially miss me (LOL) are about 39.65%, while you might be accordingly missed by a clearly lower 32.76%. So the numbers paint a quite different picture to that one you've portraited.

Last but not least, when it comes to Tatu themselves and their posse - since this is allegendly a tatu forum - there's most likely not A SINGLE PERSON who is at least bisexual. Shap's not gay/bi, Polienko's not gay/bi, Kiper's not gay/bi, Galoyan's not gay/bi, Horn's not gay/bi Tatu themselves are not gay ( and definitely NOT bi.)
Proportional representation of gays and bisexuals in Tatu: NADA. -ok, perhaps I missed their hairdresser if they got one The fact that one gay person might post 130 messages a day doesn't change the situation ( only on the surface )

On a forum like this, you are what you profess yourself to be. Those who profess themselves as bisexual, could be straight for all that's worth. Bisexuality is quite an elusive concept after all, especially when it's considered quite hip and cool to be a bisexual female these days. Bisexuals tend to be more straight than gay.

I'm a bisexual female. 15 25.86%

I'm a bisexual male. 1 1.72%

You see the difference is quite distinct in that department.

[coolasfcuk]

maddy, nice post

Originally Posted by madeldoe

im generally not embarassed when i go into a shop..but its really gross when you go into the ones that have the viewing booths upstairs *shudders* grooody! and you can hear the moans and what not in the background eww blech!

where in the Bay Area are those??? share share... I already did walk through the 'red light' district, is it in that area?

haku, dont take it personally, I disappear every summer for 3 months without posting and it goes pretty unnoticed as well ... the more you post, the more popular you are... once you stop... shortly after that your popularity is 0 hihi... but no big deal its what hapens at forums

spy, wow ... are you into statistics and probabilities .... make a poll now of who is who and what

[spyretto]

Well, cool, I'm just making a point that straight people might have at least the equal "right" of frequenting the forum as gay people do.
Which comes back to my initial point. If the primary posters here are indeed homosexual females, it's not because of Tatu ( ) or the forum's trend, it's simply because they're harder to find as well as the fact that lesbians seem to be taking too much pride in what they are. - Everyone takes too much prise in what they are, no matter what you are, coz it's you. Consequently, the sense of bond and community is stronger, than among the straight people who frequent the forum.
At the end of the day, sex is irrelevant when it comes to friendship. I believe that straight people have every right to be here as gay people do. If you don't think that, then you're discriminating against us - so don't be surprised if you're been discriminated against in the long scale.
"Don't do to others what you don't want done to yourself".

[haku]

Originally Posted by coolasfcuk

haku, dont take it personally

I don't , honestly, i really don't mind.

Originally Posted by QueenBee

It's like oral sex.. other than that, people have always told me that it's never nice for a female

Well, straight girls should enjoy giving oral sex to guys, just like gay girls enjoy giving oral sex to girls, and gay guys enjoy giving oral sex to guys.

If they don't, they probably should try having sex with girls because there is no point in having sex with the opposite sex if they actually don't enjoy it.

[coolasfcuk]

Originally Posted by spyretto

Well, cool, I'm just making a point that straight people might have at least the equal "right" of frequenting the forum as gay people do.
Which comes back to my initial point. If the primary posters here are indeed homosexual females, it's not because of Tatu ( ) or the forum's trend, it's simply because they're harder to find as well as the fact that lesbians seem to be taking too much pride in what they are. - Everyone takes too much prise in what they are, no matter what you are, coz it's you. Consequently, the sense of bond and community is stronger, than among the straight people who frequent the forum.
At the end of the day, sex is irrelevant when it comes to friendship. I believe that straight people have every right to be here as gay people do. If you don't think that, then you're discriminating against us - so don't be surprised if you're been discriminated against in the long scale.
"Don't do to others what you don't want done to yourself".

I m not sure why you still keep insisting that i DONT want straight people?! Why do you think i am discriminating agaist you? Straight people have NOT at least, but AN EQUAL right at this forum .... why you arent posting beats me, because i dont see myself (or anyone else) stopping you ... so, please post.
I didnt see myself taking pride in what i am ... what is so wrong with few of us discussing an issue on a common interst?
... you are just spinning 'round in circles here...... listen to what Killa said, and lets not make this into boys/girls .. straight/gay/whatever camps ....

[madeldoe]

Originally Posted by coolasfcuk

maddy, nice post

where in the Bay Area are those??? share share... I already did walk through the 'red light' district, is it in that area?

they are waay down market street. it alternates, sex shop then strip bar. then somewhere in the middle is a concert hall? lol its funny. when we went to see the gavin degraw show, all these little teeny boppers came and i could just imagine their parents covering their eyes while they walked passed the strip joints did you get to go to castro?

[coolasfcuk]

Originally Posted by madeldoe

did you get to go to castro?

castro..castro...what is castro?

what i thought was the red light district was when i went to an Architecture bookstore on like... umm... Montgomery and Broadway (or more like Jackson).... and looked like there were buncha strip clubs and sex shops all over Broadway ... as far as i remember that was not too far away from Market St

[teeny]

hehe.. isn't it odd that this thread was created so we wouldn't go totally off topic in The L Word thread and now we are mostly talking about the forum situation in this thread instead?

[coolasfcuk]

Originally Posted by coolasfcuk

castro..castro...what is castro?

we are def. all over the place ... but i found out what Castro is and YES, I saw it

[spyretto]

Originally Posted by coolasfcuk

I m not sure why you still keep insisting that i DONT want straight people?! Why do you think i am discriminating agaist you? Straight people have NOT at least, but AN EQUAL right at this forum .... why you arent posting beats me, because i dont see myself (or anyone else) stopping you ... so, please post.
I didnt see myself taking pride in what i am ... what is so wrong with few of us discussing an issue on a common interst?
... you are just spinning 'round in circles here...... listen to what Killa said, and lets not make this into boys/girls .. straight/gay/whatever camps ....

No, I wasn't referring to you in particular, I just mentioned your name at first because you responded to my post but I was making some general observations. Spinning around in circles? I don't get it. I'm responding to haku usual piquant comments, not yours. You said what you think already, it's very understandable on where you stand.
Also trying to subvert your dildo/strap-on/toy masturbation/vegetable insertion thread, any way I can
subvertise, rite? flying in the face of whatever topic I don't like... So, don't mind me and keep on doing your business...

[coolasfcuk]

ok, I blame the glue sniffing for the misunderstanding

Originally Posted by spyretto

So, don't mind me and keep on doing your business...

now, what kind of business are you refering to??? toys and vegitables? ... or just the normal day job responsibilites- aka GLUE SNIFFING all day

[Veggie Delite]

Originally Posted by coolasfcuk

ok, I blame the glue sniffing for the misunderstanding

now, what kind of business are you refering to??? toys and vegitables?

what about vegetables...?

[rosh]

Originally Posted by QueenBee

Me too, I heard the same... we had a discussion in my class about it with our teacher, and apparently guys can enjoy anal sex while girls can't, anatomically... I could imagine a girl liking it though because it's "raw" or whatever, I mean, it resembles animal sex (the way animals have sex, not having sex with an animal ) - okay so we're animals but you get my point - or maybe she finds anal sex arousing because she's not "in control", so to say... Also how you said, it is to make your partner enjoy... It's like oral sex.. other than that, people have always told me that it's never nice for a female

Did I just say that?!

i actually know quite a few girls who enjoy anal sex. i guess its like anything else really - you either enjoy it or you dont ? it either does something for you or it doesnt