Social commentary: queer social events, bars, clubs, etc.

Lux · 16-01-2006, 12:02

dyke in the queer world means alot of things. dyke carries a negative connotation usually but in the queer world, it's ok. i don't care either way. i'm not generally attracted to butch/mannish women. that's just me.

zebu · 16-01-2006, 12:26

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Originally Posted by Lux

i'm not generally attracted to butch/mannish women. that's just me.

same here. id rather go out with a guy, then a guylooking girl. why take a fake imitation if u can have the real thing.

Lux · 16-01-2006, 13:25

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Originally Posted by zebu

same here. id rather go out with a guy, then a guylooking girl. why take a fake imitation if u can have the real thing.

thank you.

i felt i was alone in this in terms of speaking up. and you did. thanks.
i was talking to a girl earlier tonight and during our conversation it was unclear how a girl can look boyish/mannish and even act it, but when they strip down to have sex, they are still a girl. so, for the girls who like butch/mannish girls, when they have sex with them they are still having sex with females and not males. that doesn't make sense and i don't understand it.

xmad · 16-01-2006, 16:52

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Originally Posted by zebu

id rather go out with a guy, then a guylooking girl. why take a fake imitation if u can have the real thing.

fake imitation?

Kappa · 16-01-2006, 17:12

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Originally Posted by zebu

why take a fake imitation if u can have the real thing.

Thank you for taking in count that some of us like dressing in a masculine way, but not that it doesn't mean we want to be men.

xmad · 16-01-2006, 17:27

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darje, you are butch,right?

coolasfcuk · 16-01-2006, 19:08

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Originally Posted by Lux

dyke in the queer world means alot of things. dyke carries a negative connotation usually but in the queer world, it's ok. i don't care either way. i'm not generally attracted to butch/mannish women. that's just me.

that's not what i meant - dyke carries a negative connotation usually, but it is not only ok in the queer word, in the queer world dyke does not imply butch, dyke means ANY lesbian, that's what i meant.

http://www.butch-femme.com/Faq/terms.htm - fun terms for you guys

Lux · 16-01-2006, 22:09

why do girls like to dress like guys? i am very curious

xmad · 16-01-2006, 22:18

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Originally Posted by Lux

why do girls like to dress like guys?

I do like to dress like guys.and I do, because it makes me feel so good.

Lux · 16-01-2006, 22:50

i don't understand that.

zebu · 17-01-2006, 01:44

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Originally Posted by xmad

I do like to dress like guys.and I do, because it makes me feel so good.

do u wish u were a guy?

Lux · 17-01-2006, 01:49

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please explain that. i don't understand it. please don't take it as an offense because i am just curious, and not judging you for it.

xmad · 17-01-2006, 02:12

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Originally Posted by zebu

do u wish u were a guy?

Hmmm good question!!what do you think?

Lux · 17-01-2006, 02:16

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Originally Posted by xmad

Hmmm good question!!what do you think?

how are we supposed to know? we don't know you as a person because 1. we've not met and 2. we have idea who you are.

i, at least, am only curious.

xmad · 17-01-2006, 02:23

at least you can guess.what do you think of this type of people?we've not met but you've seen the people who are like me.
I'm sure you have ideas.well,share them.

freddie · 17-01-2006, 02:33

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Originally Posted by xmad

at least you can guess.what do you think of this type of people?we've not met but you've seen the people who are like me.
I'm sure you have ideas.well,share them.

Depends on what do you mean with "like you". If you mean butch then I doubt every butch girl has same or even similar aspirations in her sexuality.

Lux · 17-01-2006, 02:43

yeah. it's not for us to guess. it is an open ended question, and i was curious about your insight. i have no idea otherwise.

KillaQueen · 17-01-2006, 10:30

i can give you my opinion on the matter. i am not what you'd call butch. i'd like to think i am somewhere in between (androgynous?). i mostly use unisex clothes. i simply HATE women clothes, i find them too short, too tight, too uncomfortable, bad colours etc. yet you may find me wearing a tight top, even though i rarely find one that suits my tastes. and i also wear tight jeans, but only when i'm bored of the loose ones. generally, i find unisex and men's clothes more appealing, and i don't wish i were a man. i just think they suit me better when i look in the mirror.

marina · 17-01-2006, 14:04

LOL

KillaQueen , I have seen several of your pics and I can assure you that you are miles away from being butch !

KillaQueen · 17-01-2006, 15:41

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Originally Posted by marina

LOL

KillaQueen , I have seen several of your pics and I can assure you that you are miles away from being butch !

thanks, Marina! i'll take that as a compliment. heck... it IS a compliment

don't wanna seem butch now.. lol. but not femme either. LOL. ahem.