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Should women over 50 have babies?



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Old 19-06-2006, 22:16   #61
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Old 19-06-2006, 22:19   #62
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Old 19-06-2006, 22:25   #63
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Old 19-06-2006, 22:39   #64
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I don't think it's crazy to not want chidren, i don't have any and i don't intend to have any.
People do look at you funny though when you're passed a certain age and still haven't settled down with a wife and kids. You become an oddity, something awkward, all my former friends from school have settled down in their early 30s and that has left me as the weird guy who remained single and is better avoided.
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Old 23-06-2006, 21:30   #65
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I don't think it's crazy to not want chidren, i don't have any and i don't intend to have any.
People do look at you funny though when you're passed a certain age and still haven't settled down with a wife and kids. You become an oddity, something awkward, all my former friends from school have settled down in their early 30s and that has left me as the weird guy who remained single and is better avoided.
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Ditto. Most of my friends are like that as well. I haven't said the final "no" to children yet, but if I ever had them I'd make damn sure I can afford them and offer them proper opportunities in life. And if I did have them I wouldn't have just one...cause I'm an only child and it sucked.
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Old 08-07-2006, 14:12   #66
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Old 12-07-2006, 03:17   #67
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it depends on the woman i guess. if she is healthy and still capable of having kids then i don't see why not. although having kids after a certain age is dangerous to even healthy women, it still depends on the individual.
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Old 12-07-2006, 23:25   #68
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I'd say that it sin't "fair" for the born child. Lets say the mother decides to have a baby at the age of 50. At the age of 10 (for the child) she would have 60. Then lets say he goes to college at the age of 15 ? I don't know how the systems work outside of malta, so lets take 15. She would have 65 thats already an old age, then he'll marry at the age .. of 26 - 30 possibly older. She would have a total amount of 76 ... thats an old age. He wouldn't have much time to spend with his mother as children born from young mothers would have. Apart for all the modern "therapies" the new borns would need so that they would develop a healthy life style. But obviouly its not fair to make any law or anything illeagal because some consider having a baby is a miracle... but its just an opinion
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Old 13-07-2006, 00:05   #69
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I'd say that it sin't "fair" for the born child. Lets say the mother decides to have a baby at the age of 50. At the age of 10 (for the child) she would have 60. Then lets say he goes to college at the age of 15 ? I don't know how the systems work outside of malta, so lets take 15. She would have 65 thats already an old age, then he'll marry at the age .. of 26 - 30 possibly older. She would have a total amount of 76 ... thats an old age. He wouldn't have much time to spend with his mother as children born from young mothers would have. Apart for all the modern "therapies" the new borns would need so that they would develop a healthy life style. But obviouly its not fair to make any law or anything illeagal because some consider having a baby is a miracle... but its just an opinion
The kid won't have any problem with having old parents. There are unlimited examples of kids being brought up by grandparents or foster parents with a high age in general. They all turn out super. That the kid will loose its parents at a low age just isn't a long term "ill". My dad lost his mother when he was 6-7 years old (other reasons tho, but still), and he turned out super. I sure as hell believe he did. He's a great father

It'll only trouble the kid temporarily. It's a fact that the kid will get over losing his/her parents, perhaps much easier than when you're grown up. Kids can adapt to new realities extremely well.

But what is unforgiving in this story is that the parents here risked the health for the unborn baby by letting the mother get pregnant. Even if she felt as healthy as she states, that kid could have ended up with permanent abnormalities. Her body has decayed for 45-50 years. She could feel like 30 years old, but here genes wouldn't. She should know better than risking the health of her own baby. Now, some might say "why bother. The kid turned out fine". Well... the chances weren't on its side. The little one had major luck, and so had the parents. I just think adobtion would be a brilliant alternative in this case... Why they didn't choose that is a mystery to me.,
And as I've said earlier, I think there should be an upper age limit for having babies, as there is a lower limit. But I guess it's a bit too "nazi" to say that? ... :P
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Old 14-07-2006, 00:39   #70
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Oh well, I guess everyone has his own opinions although we have the same conclusion, but different reasons. Even though most of the women stop the ovulation at 45, howcome having a child at 60 ... what if she has one at 90
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I think there should be an upper age limit for having babies, as there is a lower limit.
There is? I have never heard of anything like that.

I think the mother sounded a bit stupid and naive (if you can call it that). So what if you're healthy? Your body is old and there's a reason to why you stopped ovulating. But luckily as we can see, the child was born healthy and happy. Of course it's still the mother's choice, and she should be able to do what she wants... whether she thinks of the baby's health is another story.

What do you guys think about disabled people having children? I'm not talking about one missing leg or hand, I mean people who have no arms etc. Last night I watched a documentary about a woman who had no legs, she lived with her husband, her mentally challenged brother, her father (suffering from Alzheimers) and had one son already, and pregnant with another baby in this situation - after her mother had recently passed away in cancer. I thought it was a terrible situation and I was amazed at how she could even handle a child.
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Old 16-08-2006, 02:36   #72
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There is? I have never heard of anything like that.
Aye... in Norway you can't have a child before you're 16 years old. If you get pregnant before the age of 16 you have to remove it or adopt it away, and the father will be charged with raping (in most cases. If the dad is younger than the mother you can't really charge him with raping. Hehehe. But often guys are over 18 and girls are younger than 16. In that case we're talking raping. I have no idea what happens if a guy is 16 or 17 tho).

Well, if there ever will come a upper limit to when you should be able to get babies I don't think the father should be charged with raping , but the mother could be forced to remove it. And that's also why I said that it might be a little too "nazi" thing to say, cause it's not a very nice thing to force people to do - allthough I'm VERY pro-abortion I have no right to force people to do it... - But my point is that I think people should respect an upper age limit at least...
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