Haku, that's nonsense! When you came here you were an amazing person, and after the change you are still as amazing as ever, if not more. I really loved you before the Anatomy and I really love you now, because you're still the person you were from the beginning, except your views have changed. You are really beautiful, generous, funny, intelligent and sensitive, and that's why we love you! So don't become something that people want you to be, be the person that YOU feel comfortable with being. The way you have changed is not bad at all, but you were sad and I am really happy that you feel better now. But you're as great as you always were - if not greater.
Congratulations!