Hmm... I dunno. I think it's a little bit of a myth that men only go for looks and women tend to go more after personality and character. I'd say it's somewhere divided in the middle for both the sexes really.
Me personally actually don't go for looks as many others do. Sure, "hot women" turn me on sexually, but I like it much more when I'm "turned on mentally" as well. And when it comes to things that fascinates me and turns me on, then eyes and a special face are the absolute winners. If I were to choose a girl I'd much rather go for the intelligent girl with the mysterious looking face rather than the standard good looking girl with porcelain skin. Simply because incredible eyes and a complex personality and a bright mind turns me on a hell of a lot more than some random good looking girl. Also, I have this thing for languages and accents, and surely, that's not linked to looks
And porn? I think what
haku linked to shows that girls acctually DO watch porn, and why deny it? I mean, so what if girls watch porn almost as much as men do? It's not like it causes any harm to anyone. The world won't go under...
And I can't see why it's so important for women to prove their innocense; that they don't watch porn at all. Know that we're not talking about ALL women, but _some_. Not all men watch porn either. However I think it's just much more accepted for guys to say: "Yeah, I watch porn. So?" than it is for girls... and I think girls would rather avoid talking about porn, cause they either dislike it or actually watch it but don't want to tell anyone. Of course, I can't know this for a fact since I'm not a woman
but I believe it's somewhere near the truth. And I guess if my suspicions are correct I will never get to know the answer. Hehehe.
And I'd just like to add: I don't think I know of anyone who's more body-fixated than some of my female friends. They all go like: "woaaah look at that body", "what a sexy six-pack" or "look at that hot ass" when they see some standard muscular guy flexing his body. I'd never say something like: "wow, look at those nice tits" or "gaaawd, she has a great ass" - simply because that's not what I'm primarly looking for... If I were to comment anything I'd comment the face.
Not all men are alike, and neither are women!