Yes, I've chosen to not hide the way I feel, but I never chose to feel this way. I sometimes wonder how it would be if I was straight. I think "wouldn't life be so much easier?" So WHY would anyone choose to be gay? I, for one, am not into being terrified I'll lose my friends if they find out about me
No one chooses whether or not to be gay, but they can choose whether to act on their feelings. You can be married to someone of the different sex - it's not who you're having sex with/living with - it's who you want to have sex with/who you have feelings for. So you don't need to be having sex with someone of the same sex to be gay - so you don't choose to be gay!
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Originally Posted by nataku
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psssst..ice_cream, have you heard of downelink?
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downelink?!