Kate, with all due respect, there's no point to say that "you should have, but will not".
My 1st post was on topic, if I am not mistaken. And I will make this one too
So the private forum is only for picking up the hot stuff or to also talk about things? if the former, than I don't understand why it is a "forum", if the latter, I don't think it's will be any good: people will have to talk on two forums?
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