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Originally Posted by xmad
2nd: having children needs so much responsibilities.how are they gonna raise the child at that old age? There will be a huge generation gap between them so how they're gonna understand each other? and how many years they have to live. I think someone who does this kind of childish or even selfish things is not mature enough, no matter how old they are.
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That's no problem. There are infinite number of cases where grandparents (or simply grandparents-aged foster parents) have brought up lonely kids, and with superb results! 50 isn't OLD... you're perfectly capable of bringing up a kid at that age. Even the problem for the kid with the parents dying "early" is no problem at all. The kid will get over that. Everyone have lost someone dear to them without the whole world collapsing before their eyes. Age doesn't really matter when the kid is already born and in super shape.
The problem is the risks before and while giving birth to the little one: The old lady will give the baby high risks of permanent disnormalities and problems that it will struggle with for the rest of his/her life. This can be pretty serious, and not something the mother should risk putting on her child. That's the only problem in my opinion, but it's a huge one.