So I agree with a part your post
Rob and a part of your post
Xena....I don't believe any more in certain Christmas' tales where people become very nice suddendly without having another idea behind the head...
Told here before that i was against a hard separation ("anti"/"pro" tatu)...
But we saw here that there is nevertheless a request of certain members... I believe that honestly, we do not have the right to be unaware of this request....because people really suffer. We can ignore this pain.
Many members are young here.... Tatu has an almost magic capacity on people, I mean that some persons were enormously invested emotionally.
For certain people, the sorrow and disappointment to see a part of their dreams broken are almost the same as an unhappy love affair.
And to recover emotionally from a first great unhappy love affair, it is something of difficult.
We know all all that to cure of a sorrow, it is necessary to speak. It is necessary to speak, and speak and speak again unceasingly of the same thing in order to evacuate it. And it is necessary to be also listened by friendly ears. To exchange its impressions also makes it possible to clearly formulate them in its head. And when something becomes clear, it is easier to cure ...
This is why the idea of
a thread seems to me good.
But why not to call it:
"free word" (Attention! I think we can express relatively freely on the forum, don't confuse).
If this thread is created, it is necessary that the other members commit themselves respecting what will be said here.
If you feel that you will not be able to read what will be said there, don't go, please... if not, while reading, never forget that there is TRUE PAIN..and this often amplifies the words.
So don't bring these words in others threads to comment them.
I notice just that all the members are always there and that the words become softer.
When your friends are unhappy, they should be helped.
We have to do it.
I believe that it is important to help them
but in a vision of unification and not of separation.
Even if our opinions are different, we learned how to know us, and I am sure that there is affection between us.
Then, it is necessary that we help ourselves between us and when our "heart family" will be again a little more happy, less in the sadness....we could be "proud" of each member of this forum(in the good sense not the sterile sense)....because we can success in this project just if we work together.
